Actions speak louder than words. You may have heard this saying before. We agree with it, especially when you’re trying to understand if a guy wants you.
A person’s body language can indeed reveal what they’re thinking and feeling. They might show interest in you through big or small gestures you might not even realize. However, it’s not always easy to tell if they’re interested in you sexually or just being friendly.
So, how can you tell he Wants You Sexually?
If you want to know what’s going on in his mind, here are some vital body language signs that indicate he’s really into you.
He Finds Opportunities to Touch You
If a guy wants sex with you, he will be strongly attracted to your body. He will try to touch you by finding or making chances to do so.
This could be a gentle pat on your back, shoulder, or head. It might also be a playful gesture, like challenging you to a thumb wrestling match.
All of these actions usually indicate that he is interested in you. Guys typically initiate physical contact with a girl to create a connection.
He might even be testing how comfortable you are with his touch and trying to see if you would be open to him making a move.
He Keeps Staring at You
Making eye contact is expected when you’re talking to someone one-on-one. This video by TopThink explains it well because it focuses on when, how, and where someone looks.
For example, does the person maintain eye contact even when you’re far away in the room? Or if they lack confidence, they might glance at you occasionally.
Pay attention to what their eyes are doing because they reveal much about a person’s thoughts and feelings.
He develops an erection when you are around.
We understand that you might not have expected or noticed this, but it’s essential to know that his tool is a significant part of his body.
If he becomes physically excited whenever he’s around you, it shows how much he desires you.
It might not be obvious when he’s wearing jeans, but if he’s wearing trousers, now you know where to look for the subtle sign that he wants you.
Before you, he flexes his muscles.
Girls like guys who are physically fit, and having muscles shows that. That’s why you see many guys going to the gym these days.
It’s not always true, but if a guy shows off his muscles to you, there’s a good chance he’s interested in you.
Of course, there are exceptions, and he might be looking for compliments.
But one thing is clear: he wants to impress you with the hard work he’s been doing.
His Eyes Enlarge When He Talks to You
Did you know our eyes get more prominent when we look at something we like? It’s kind of like a signal. So, if a guy’s eyes get more apparent when he talks to you, it could mean he’s interested in you romantically or socially.
But if you don’t notice it happening, don’t worry about it. It can be tricky to tell, especially if the lighting in the room is dim or bright.
Just a friendly reminder: It’s not a good idea to start measuring the size of his pupils. You don’t want to make him uncomfortable or weirded out.
He Arms You With His
Hugging a girl and putting your arm around her shoulder is a friendly way of showing interest in her.
However, if the guy goes further and touches your breast with his arm, it indicates that he wants to be intimate with you.
He’s saying he wants to have sex with you, and there’s no doubt about it.
If that’s the case, you can start flirting with him by holding his hand, but be careful not to let him take advantage of your sensitive body parts too quickly.
Otherwise, he might think you’re readily available. That’s why some guys are only interested in hooking up with girls who let them do whatever they want.
He frequently fidgets while he speaks to you.
When you’re talking to someone and fidgeting with random things, it usually makes you feel nervous.
When women talk to guys they like, they often play with their hair.
On the other hand, men tend to fidget with things nearby when they’re nervous. It could be a coin, a bottle cap, or the button on their shirt.
If you notice him doing any of these things, it could be his way of dealing with his nervousness when he’s around.
In a group setting, He Faces You and Sits Close to You.
How a guy behaves with a group of people and a girl around can tell you a lot about him. You can try watching to see if he tries to sit close to you and faces you.
If he does this, he probably wants to learn more about you but feels nervous about approaching you when you’re alone.
You can try starting a conversation with him; we’re sure he’ll give you his full attention.
His Hugs Usually Last Long
It’s excellent to hug your friend, but it’s essential to consider how you hug them.
If you’re hugging someone of the opposite gender, keeping the hug under 3 seconds is usually best.
If their hugs are unusually long or they often ask for hugs, it’s a clear sign that they are attracted to you.
He presents as protective of you.
Many men have a strong urge to protect themselves when they are with a girl they like. They may ensure you stay away from the sidewalk’s edge or take care of you while cycling. However, be cautious if he does these things around you because he might be looking for something more severe than a causal relationship.